FRIENDS VERSUS LOVERS

It really really sucks that some people whom you love really a lot can never be your lovers. Well, that's a conclusion i made with some friends the other day.

emotional attachment and companionship does not seem to be enough and add in the complication of a crazy century's working pace, broken down society and so forth.

perhaps that's why i'm better off being the gal pal of my male guyfriends, rather than being the muse...the girlfriend material.

so let's compare

When you're the gal pal, you get endless loyalty points and emotional support from your guyfriends, no emotional hang-ups or sexually tense situations. just plain old simple friendship. and even if crap happens in the love scene, you'll still be friends. you're also free to date around and meet new people. no jealousy, no outbursts, no terrible scenes.

however, when you're the girlfriend, there are just too much responsibility, expectations and obligations that make the formally steamy moments rather unsexy. suddenly you got to give up time spent with your friends.

sigh.

maybe i'm thinking too much.

or just maybe i've grown too cynical.