BREAKING THE CYCLE

everyone has a certain way of doing things and somehow we get into similar processes because, afterall, sometimes we feel comforted by the familiar as we are safe in our very comfort zone.

this topic came about with different friends as we were discussing about how sometimes we get trapped in certain cycles.

like..

we tend to love buying the same clothes. (the similar patterns, circular motions, cloth, cutting, length, price)

we seem to gravitate towards certain types of food, scents and so on.

perhaps it's the same with people.

we date certain types, we get our hearts broken by the same group of people, we fall in love with specific specimen and we break the hearts of certain groups of people.

sometimes it's always a good idea to take a step back and break the cycle.

e.g. hypothetically if you find that brown-haired guys, who smoke a lot and drink a lot and loves sponge bob squarepants, seem to love to break your heart, then try dating blonds who don't smoke or drink at all and of course wears spiderman boxers??

heh.